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🌟 From the Touchline: Lillie’s next step with Bows Soccer Academy



At NexxtGen Football, we believe in celebrating the journeys of young players who are thriving both on and off the pitch. Today, we’re immensely proud to shine the spotlight on Lillie, my daughter, who has recently been offered the exciting opportunity to progress into the next stage of her development with Bows Soccer Academy.


This is not just a personal milestone—it’s a testament to the excellent work being done across grassroots football to nurture talent, build confidence, and instil values that go far beyond the game.


🏫 What is Bows Soccer Academy?


Founded by Ben Bowditch, Bows Soccer Academy has established itself as one of the most respected youth football environments in Hertfordshire and Essex. With sessions tailored for boys and girls aged 4 to 16, the academy provides a professional, fun, safe and educational setting for children to learn and develop both their footballing and social skills.


What makes Bows different is their commitment to developing the whole child—not just the player. Whether a child is picking up a football for the first time or preparing for academy trials, the coaching team ensures that every session is inclusive, high quality, and inspired by real footballing principles.


All sessions are delivered by experienced FA and UEFA Licensed coaches, focused on:


  • ⚽ Building confidence

  • 🧠 Enhancing tactical understanding

  • 🔧 Improving technical skills

  • 💬 Encouraging communication and teamwork


This holistic approach allows children to grow not only as footballers but as young individuals, learning lessons that will serve them both on and off the pitch.


🧠 Meet the founder: Ben Bowditch


Ben Bowditch’s personal story gives real authenticity to the academy’s mission. A former professional footballer, Ben is a Tottenham Hotspur youth product who went on to represent:


  • Colchester United

  • Barnet FC

  • Cambridge City

  • Akademisk Boldklub (Denmark)

  • Stowmarket Town, where he scored on debut in the FA Vase


He also proudly wore the England shirt at U16, U17, U19 and U20 levels, competing alongside some of the country’s most promising talents at the time.


Unfortunately, a succession of injuries curtailed Ben’s professional career. But as many will tell you, true character is revealed in how you respond to adversity. Instead of walking away from the game, Ben chose to give back—establishing Bows Soccer Academy to pass on his knowledge, experience, and passion to the next generation.


His journey gives real depth to his coaching philosophy: resilience, opportunity, and development.


🌱 Lillie’s progression: A proud moment


Over the past year, Lillie has shown remarkable growth—technically, tactically and socially—through her sessions at Bows. As a parent and coach, it has been a joy to watch her blossom in such a positive environment.


Recently, I received a letter from the Academy Director, which read:


“We have been delighted to witness Lillie’s growth and development, and we believe she is now ready to thrive in a more advanced environment...”

As a result, Lillie has been invited to transition into the Under-9s group, a significant step forward in her football journey. From next half term, she’ll be attending a new weekly session tailored for higher-level development.


🗓️ New Training Schedule


  • Day: Monday

  • Time: 6:00 PM – 7:00 PM

  • Venue: Goffs Academy, Goffs Oak

  • Group: Mixed players from next season’s U9s and U10s


This new group offers an exciting blend of ability, experience, and challenge—designed to stretch and support young players as they prepare for the demands of competitive football.


💬 A message of thanks


As a father, I’m incredibly proud of Lillie. But as a coach, I am equally grateful to Ben and the entire team at Bows Soccer Academy. Their professionalism, encouragement and ability to recognise individual potential are exactly what grassroots football needs more of.


Opportunities like this don’t just happen by chance—they are the product of consistent coaching, tailored guidance, and a culture that values development over results. If your child is looking for a place to learn, grow, and fall in love with football, I can confidently recommend Bows Soccer Academy.


⚽ Join the journey


If you’re based in Hertfordshire or Essex and want your son or daughter to experience a first-class football education, Bows Soccer Academy is worth exploring. Whether your child is just beginning their footballing journey or is looking for the next challenge, this academy offers something truly special.


For more information, or to enquire about a free taster session, visit Bows Soccer Academy or reach out to their coaching staff directly.


📌 Final thoughts


Grassroots football is about so much more than producing professional players. It’s about confidence, community, and character. Watching Lillie take this next step with the support of such a dedicated academy is a moment I’ll always treasure.


At NexxtGen Football, we’ll continue to share stories like these to highlight what’s possible when young players are given the right environment to thrive.


Well done, Lillie—you’ve made us all proud. And thank you, Bows Soccer Academy, for continuing to raise the bar in youth football.


🌍 Supporting Development, One Player at a Time


Steve Halls is an FA qualified football coach offering consultancy, talent identification, mentoring and player representation in Cheshunt and the surrounding areas. In today’s interconnected world, Steve can offer his services to players, clubs, and organisations across the globe. With a passion for holistic development and a deep understanding of the youth pathway, Steve supports individuals and teams in reaching their full potential — both on and off the pitch.











End of the Season – So What’s Next?

Updated: May 18



As another grassroots football season comes to a close, the pitches across Hertfordshire and beyond fall silent—boots hung up (briefly), medals handed out, and the parents’ WhatsApp groups quietening after months of sideline buzz. But for many families, the question soon returns, often framed with pride but also uncertainty:


“My child’s been brilliant this season—they've played their socks off. Surely, they should be at a higher level! What’s next?”

It’s a question I’m asked every year, often by parents whose children have shown tremendous dedication and progress over the course of the season. And it’s an important one. Because while football at this age should be about enjoyment and development, it’s natural for ambitious players (and parents) to wonder whether a step up to a more competitive level—such as the Emerald or Premier League divisions—is the right move.


But before we look at what to do, let’s take a moment to reflect on the why.


⚽ Youth development is not a race


The football world is full of stories of early bloomers and late developers. Some children dominate at U9 but fade by U13; others struggle at U10 but go on to make academy breakthroughs at U15. The journey is not linear. The key is recognising that player development should be player-centred—focused on the long-term needs, confidence, and readiness of the child.


While promotions and accolades are great, they are secondary to confidence, resilience, skill acquisition, and—most importantly—a love for the game.


🔍 Is it the right time to step up?


A jump from a mid or lower-tier grassroots team to a top Emerald or Premier League side can be transformative—but it can also be damaging if the timing or environment isn’t right.


Here are some key considerations to help evaluate the next move:


1. Confidence vs. Competence

  • A player might be technically gifted, but are they emotionally ready to face tougher competition, higher expectations, and possibly reduced playing time?

  • Confidence is fragile at these ages. A move up should build it—not break it.


2. The standard gap

  • Going from Division 5 to Premier League can be a leap. Is the gap in physicality, speed of play, and tactical awareness too wide?

  • A gradual step up (e.g., from Division 5 to Division 2, then Premier) can be more manageable, allowing for adaptation without overwhelming the player.


3. Does the new team develop players or just collect them?

  • Some top-tier teams are well-structured and focused on development. Others simply sign the best players to win trophies.

  • Ensure your child is joining a club with clear developmental values: regular rotation, high coaching standards, and a pathway to progress.

4. Environment & enjoyment

  • Will the child still enjoy training, matches, and the social element of football in a more demanding setting?

  • A great player in the wrong environment can quickly become a disillusioned one.


🚀 When stepping up makes sense

With that said, there are certainly times when a move up is the right call. If your child is consistently dominating at their current level—technically, tactically, and physically—it may be time to challenge them further. Signs include:

  • Cruising through games without breaking a sweat

  • A visible hunger for more challenge

  • High levels of self-motivation and discipline

  • Leadership qualities and team influence


When you notice these attributes, and your child is expressing a desire to be pushed, it’s worth exploring higher-level teams. But again—do your homework. Not all Premier or Emerald clubs are created equal.


🧠 A word on mindset: “The parent-coach partnership”


Parents often want the best for their child—and that’s a good thing. But there’s a difference between supportive ambition and performance pressure. Here are a few tips to stay grounded:


  • Talk to your child – What do they want? Sometimes the child is content, even when parents are not.

  • Speak to current and prospective coaches – Ask about playing style, rotation policy, training quality, and ethos.

  • Avoid chasing prestige for prestige’s sake – A flashy team name or kit colour doesn’t guarantee development.

  • Stay humble, stay patient – Development takes time. Rushing the process can cause long-term harm.


🏗️ Alternatives to switching teams


Sometimes a change of club is the right call—but not always. Here are other powerful tools in the player development toolbox:


✅ Specialist Training


Join academies like Bows Soccer Academy, Elite Ballers, or one-on-one coaching providers. These environments can offer technical refinement, confidence building, and tailored feedback.


✅ Position Changes

A player may flourish by experimenting in different roles—perhaps moving from striker to attacking midfield or centre-back to full-back. Versatility can unlock new growth.


✅ Mentorship & goal setting


Help your child set development goals. For example: improve weak foot, increase speed, enhance decision-making. Progress is progress—even outside of promotions.


✅ Summer development plans


Don’t view summer as a ‘break’ from development. A focused off-season, built around small-group sessions, strength and conditioning, and game intelligence work can set a child up for a massive leap in September.


🧭 A path, not a ladder


Too often, parents treat grassroots football as a simple ladder: if you're good, you go up. But it's not that simple. Sometimes staying still—or even stepping sideways—can bring the biggest growth.


As a coach, I’ve seen players stagnate in top teams with no minutes, and others flourish in supportive environments where they play every week and build confidence. The true test of a coach or parent is whether they make decisions that are in the child’s best interests, not their ego.


👥 What does your player need right now?


So—what’s next?

That depends on the player, not the league.


Ask yourself (and them):

  • Are they thriving, or just surviving?

  • Are they learning, or just winning?

  • Are they challenged, or bored?

  • Do they love football more now than they did in September?


If the answers point to stagnation or unfulfilled potential—then yes, perhaps a move is due. But make it carefully, consciously, and with the long-term picture in mind.

🏁 Final thoughts

Every child’s journey is unique. Don’t compare your son or daughter to others. Compare them only to themselves last season.

As coaches, mentors, and parents, we must work together to keep football fun, progressive, and supportive. Whether a player ends up in the Premier League or just the local Sunday side, what matters most is that they leave grassroots football with:

  • Confidence in their abilities

  • A deep love for the game

  • A strong sense of character and discipline


And who knows? With the right development, the right environment, and a bit of patience—they might just go all the way.


But only if we don’t rush the process.


Have a great summer!


Best wishes,











Tottenham Hotspur 1–2 Nottingham Forest: Spurs’ Domestic Struggles Deepen as Forest Eyes Champions League



Tottenham Hotspur's Premier League woes continued with a 2-1 home defeat to Nottingham Forest on Monday night, marking their 18th league loss of the season and leaving them perilously close to the relegation zone. Early goals from Elliot Anderson and Chris Wood put Forest firmly in control, and despite a late header from Richarlison, Spurs were unable to salvage a point.​


First-Half Collapse


Forest took the lead in the 5th minute when Anderson's deflected shot found the back of the net. Wood doubled the advantage in the 16th minute, heading in a cross from Anthony Elanga. Spurs' defence appeared disorganised, allowing Forest to capitalise on their opportunities.​


Late Response Not Enough


Tottenham dominated possession in the second half, with 70% of the ball and 22 shots, but struggled to break down Forest's resolute defence. Richarlison's 87th-minute goal, assisted by Pedro Porro, offered a glimmer of hope, but it was too little, too late.​


Managerial Pressure Mounts


Ange Postecoglou's side now sits 16th in the table, just above the relegation zone. The defeat adds to the mounting pressure on the manager, especially with a Europa League semi-final against Bodo/Glimt on the horizon. Postecoglou acknowledged the team's shortcomings, stating, "We conceded two poor goals and gave ourselves a mountain to climb.


Forest's European Ambitions


Under former Spurs manager Nuno Espírito Santo, Nottingham Forest climbed to third place in the league, bolstering their Champions League aspirations. Nuno praised his team's performance, saying, "We have a clear way to play and find ourselves in our identity.


Looking Ahead


Tottenham faces a challenging fixture against Liverpool at Anfield next, followed by the crucial Europa League semi-final. Forest, meanwhile, prepares for an FA Cup semi-final against Manchester City, aiming to continue their impressive run.​


Steve Halls is an FA and UEFA-qualified football coach, currently focused on grassroots youth development. A passionate Tottenham Hotspur supporter and dedicated football writer, he shares his insights from the touchline to the terraces.


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